Thursday Thought - 25th February 2021
nothing in the golden rule says that others will treat us as we have treated them. it only says that we must treat others in a way that we would want to be treated.
Thursday Thought - 11th February 2021
agape love is ... profound concern for the well-being of another, without the desire to control that other, to be thanked by that other, or to enjoy the process.
Madeleine L’Engle - American Writer
The last 12 months have been very different from what we all expected. Little did we really know what was to come last Valentine’s Day. However, this Valentine’s Day is a good time to stop and think about the people we care for, and what we can do to show our love and care for them. We all need to feel love and be loved at the moment. Feelings of love and affection carry with them numerous health benefits by lowering your blood pressure, stabilising your mood, and the mental, emotional, and social advantages of receiving love and affection speak for themselves.
The Ancient Greeks had eight words that corresponded to different types of love: Eros (romantic love); Philia (affectionate love); Agape (selfless love); Storge (familiar love); Mania (obsessive love); Ludus (playful love); Pragma (enduring love); and Philautia (self love).
Valentine’s day can involve many of these different types of love, but I have been encouraging the children to think about agape love this Valentines. This is possibly the most important of all love. Agape is selfless, undeserving and generous. It’s the kind of love that makes people volunteer for the jobs that nobody else wants to do. It’s the kind of love that is concerned for the needs of the vulnerable, the lonely, the weak and people that nobody wants to care for. I’ve asked the children to think about all the ways their parents show them love: by preparing meals for them; washing their dirty clothes; limiting their time on devices; supporting them with their home schooling; and even telling them off when they have made the wrong choice. These are just a few of the things you do as parents. They aren’t necessarily how you would like to be spending your time and you don’t do them to receive thanks, although the occasional thank you wouldn’t go amiss! But you do them because you care. Sometimes children don’t recognise or appreciate all the different ways that you show them love. Love isn’t just about hearts, flowers, chocolate and saying ‘I love you’, it’s much more than that.
Agape can be said to encompass the modern concept of altruism, as defined as unselfish concern for the welfare of others. Recent studies link altruism with a number of benefits. In the short-term, an altruistic act leaves us with a euphoric feeling, the so-called "helper’s high". In the longer term, altruism has been associated with better mental and physical health, and even greater longevity. At a social level, altruism serves as a signal of cooperative intentions. Altruism, or agape, helps to build and maintain the psychological, social, and, indeed, environmental fabric that shields, sustains, and enriches us. Given the increasing anger and division in our society, and the state of our planet, we could all do with quite a bit more agape. People who experience or act with agape love show they care for people regardless of circumstance. If the Covid-19 pandemic has brought out one positive thing in us, it’s our altruistic side. As the virus spread, and with it nationwide quarantines, this has manifested in many moments of solidarity, from the texts from friends you haven’t spoken to in a while asking how you are, calls to elderly relatives to check up on their wellbeing, the sharing of hand sanitiser, the offer to walk someone’s dog for them, to the “good news” WhatsApp groups people are creating.
Love isn’t just the name of a feeling. In assembly today we thought about how love is also a ‘verb’. It is the way people behave towards each other every day. Love is all the things we do to show how much we care about one another, even if sometimes it means doing things you’d rather not do, but love makes them worthwhile. I hope this weekend the children show you all how much they love and care for you with their actions as well as their words.
Monday Message - 8th February 2021
the gift is to the giver, and comes back most to him – it cannot fail.
In assembly today, children were asked to think about Art as a gift. Artists, be they musicians, visual artists, actors, writers or poets are described as 'gifted' - their talents bring them fame and recognition, they are celebrated and lauded and have a special place in society. Art today can seem like any other commodity, something to be bought and sold in galleries, via downloads, in theatres and concert halls. The more famous and 'gifted' the artist, the higher the price it can command. But most of our human species' time on earth has not been 'history' but prehistory, a very long time, millenia before writing or money had even been thought of. For most of our time on Earth, art has not been been something made made by the elite or gifted members of a community, rather, their art has been a gift to their community (or their gods). Many of the greatest artists are unnamed. From painters in caves to stone masons working on the great cathedrals, some carving so high it can't be seen from the floor - their gift to God, it is only by their work that we know them at all.
The Gift by Lewis Hyde, a book described by The Guardian as 'the gift that keeps on giving' and more than ever, relevant to the times we find ourselves living through inspired assembly today, and the Art Club for this term, where children are asked to think about making a gallery in a window in their home as a gift to their street, their neighbours and friends. The online Cave Gallery is also a gift; a gift where children and young people can share their work, learn from each other and have a sense of connection to something bigger than any individual or household. So important now when we are in our small bubbles, be these at home or in school.
Last week was Children's Mental Health Awareness Week. We engaged with this and appreciate how important this is but I did not approach it without some ambivalence. I am not sure it does much for children's (or anyone else's mental health) to be repeatedly told it's in a bad state. For some, being sad and lonely right now is not a mental health issue so much as perfectly natural response to a sad and lonely time. I for one am much more concerned about children's screentime and the impact this has on their feelings of isolation and anxiety when we're not in lockdown than when we are all working and learning in relative isolation.
When children (and anyone else) make work and create something, we focus both outside and inside of ourselves. This can be cathartic, an expression of our feelings; it can be diverting, a means of thinking of something else outside our predicament; it can be mindful, an opportunity to just be, in the moment with your mind free of all but what it is about at that time. Whether cathartic, diverting or mindful it is likely to benefit the giver as much as those receiving and enjoying their work - in the street or online at https://sites.google.com/kingsmead.cheshire.sch.uk/cavegallery/home.
Ms S :-)
Thursday Thought - 4th February 2021
acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the FOUNDATION of all abundance
Eckhart Tolle - Author
During Children’s Mental Health Week I have spoken to the children about being thankful, something that feels like a real challenge for us all at the moment. Gratitude is an emotion that occurs in response to receiving something of value or an act of generosity from another. It's easy to feel grateful when life is good but when disaster strikes, gratitude is much more of an effort. When life is going well, gratitude allows us to celebrate and magnify goodness. But what about when life goes badly? Studies suggest that expressing and experiencing gratitude can contribute to our wellbeing so it is precisely under crisis conditions when we have the most to gain by a grateful perspective on life. .
For some people this pandemic has put situations into perspective and their levels of gratitude have gone up, which has allowed them to focus on what they appreciate and what brings them joy. Many people have come to feel grateful for having their health, having their family, or having a job. However others may feel that they have less to be grateful for during this time because of the experiences that it has brought to them and the possible impacts the pandemic has had on their lives. Those who have lost their jobs, suffered with disease, or lost someone close to them are likely struggling to find anything to feel grateful for in the situation. It takes tremendous strength to remain grateful in times of suffering or loss, however it has been shown that maintaining a feeling of gratitude for that which one still has makes dealing with adverse situations easier.
But gratitude doesn’t mean you float through life in a state of bliss, sometimes, gratitude is a bit more like exercise: It’s good for you and will pay off in the long run, but it might require some begrudging effort today. It’s when you don’t want to get out of bed that you could use the workout most, and you might need to give yourself an extra push. When it comes to gratitude, that means pointing your thoughts toward the good things, even when they seem meaningless and outweighed by all the bad. When you’re locked down or quarantined or physically distanced, it’s the small things that might matter most: a meal, a hug, a neighbour collecting some shopping for you. Reflecting on them gives your brain a break and a different focus—and that’s what makes the difference to your happiness.
Finding things to be thankful for does not mean viewing the world through rose-tinted glasses. We can fully recognise the gravity of the current situation and the human suffering it has caused while at the same time finding reasons to be grateful. Gratitude has the power to remind us of the big picture to take us out of the claustrophobia of the current crisis. Times of crisis tend to narrow our attention to immediate threats—a natural part of our hard-wired stress response. Gratitude can relieve us of this tunnel vision. We can be thankful for the blessings and comforts of this moment, whilst also being grateful for past memories and experiences. And we can look forward to a post-pandemic future and savor the freedoms and connections we will once more be able to enjoy.
Monday Message - 1st February 2021
All at sea
Living through the third national lockdown can no longer be called unprecedented. Last March, there was a real sense of us all being in it together, determined to help each other through it and appreciate the public services like NHS staff and delivery drivers. A year on, fatigue is setting in, with infection and death rates as high as they are, it can be hard to see an end in sight. Vaccines give some light at the end of the tunnel, but there is still a lot of tunnel.
This week is Children's Mental Health Awareness Week and today in school is Mighty Monday. Being mentally strong begins with liking yourself; people with good self-esteem are more resilient when times are tough. Caring for yourself, liking yourself, goes hand in hand with how we care for and consider other people. It's a virtuous circle: you say something complimentary to someone else, seeing their face light up makes you feel positive about yourself, that you're a good person. Other people will also be more likely to say kind and complimentary things to us. Of course the opposite also applies.
Lockdown 2021 is a bit like sailing on a stormy sea. We are all in the same sea but we all our boats are different. When waves are threatening and the sky is dark it can be hard even to see the other boats, let alone anyone cowering inside. Too many people have found work dry up completely or have too little work to sustain them; it must be so hard for them to empathise with those exhausted people working on the front line in food shops and the public sector. Juggling children learning at home with work is a tremendous pressure and it will be difficult to empathise with folk missing their grown up children who live far away. People living alone might have difficulty sympathising with the disagreements and irritations of people cooped up together. But just because something is hard doesn't mean we shouldn't try. If we try to remember and empathise with others, it will have benefits for our own mental health as well as making us nicer to be around. Keeping our situation in perspective and not catastrophising are important for anyone living through the privations and restrictions of the days, weeks and very possibly months ahead.
We have asked that the parents and carers who are critical workers, only use provision in school when they really need it. We balance our duty to have places for vulnerable children and the children of critical workers working out in the community with trying to keep numbers in school as low as possible and reduce mixing. The guidance from government says that if parents and carers (including critical workers) can keep children at home, they should. To keep school as safe as possible, to play our part in the community response to the pandemic, we rely on partnership with families which means people being as mindful of their duty and responsibilities as well as their entitlement or rights.
Mrs Rutter-Brown and I are working our way through making a phone call to all the families we are not in regular contact with, to see how they are and let them know we are in no doubt how difficult it is to be juggling work and children learning at home (school staff supporting learning at home for their own and other people's children tell us just how hard it is!). We know the task is no less difficult for people who are not designated as critical workers or indeed for those who are, but are able to work from home and keep their children with them. We thank each and every one of them.
Happy Monday, take care and stay strong!
Ms S :-)
Thursday Thought - 28th January 2021
there may be times when we are powerless to prevent injustice, but there must never be a time when we fail to protest
Elie Wiesel - Romanian-born American writer, professor, political activist, Nobel laureate, and Holocaust survivor.
The Jewish author, philosopher and humanist Elie Wiesel made it his life's work to bear witness to the genocide committed by the Nazis during World War II. He was the world's leading spokesman on the Holocaust.
After Hitler's forces had moved into Hungary in 1944, the Wiesel family was deported to the Auschwitz extermination camp in Poland. Elie Wiesel's mother and younger sister perished in the gas chamber there. In 1945 Elie and his father were sent on to Buchenwald, where his father died of starvation and dysentery. Seventeen-year-old Elie was still alive when American soldiers opened the camp.
For the world to remember and learn from the Holocaust was not Elie Wiesel's only goal. He thought it equally important to fight indifference and the attitude that "it's no concern of mine". Elie Wiesel saw the struggle against indifference as a struggle for peace. In his words, "The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference".
In assembly today I shared with the children some information and thoughts about Holocaust, as yesterday, the 27th January, was Holocaust Memorial day. The theme for Holocaust Memorial Day this year was ‘Be the light in the darkness’. The theme encourages everyone to reflect on the depths humanity can sink to, but also the ways individuals and communities resisted that darkness to ‘be the light’ before, during and after genocide. This theme asks us to consider different kinds of ‘darkness’, for example, identity-based persecution, misinformation, denial of justice; and different ways of ‘being the light’, for example, resistance, acts of solidarity, rescue and illuminating mistruths.
Rapid technological developments, a turbulent political climate, and world events beyond our control can leave us feeling helpless and insignificant. The utterly unprecedented times through which we are living currently are showing the very best of which humanity is capable but also the much darker side of our world as well.
I shared with the children how the citizens of Denmark were ‘the light’ during the Holocaust through their collective resistance to Nazi Germany’s occupation of Denmark during World War 2. The Danish resistance movement, with the assistance of many Danish citizens, managed to evacuate 7,220 of Denmark's 7,800 Jews, plus 686 non-Jewish spouses, by sea to nearby neutral Sweden. Within hours of learning that the Nazis intended to wipe out Denmark’s Jews, nearly all Danish Jews had gone into hiding. Within days, most of them had escaped Denmark to neutral Sweden. The miraculous-seeming rescue of over 90 percent of Danish Jews happened thanks to ordinary Danes. After the war, most Danes refused to take credit for their resistance work, which many had conducted under false names. Ordinary people who never considered themselves part of the Danish Resistance passed along messages, gathered food, gave hiding places or guarded the possessions of those who left until they returned home from the war. It was the most successful action of its kind during the Holocaust.
We need to learn from the past, but unfortunately discrimination still exists in our society today. But by working together and ‘being the light’, we can make a better, safer future that we are all responsible for. We need to make sure no-one is left out or made to feel different in a bad way; we need to respect each other and learn that together, we are stronger and happier. We need to know that when different things and different people come together, it can make life more interesting and meaningful. We are all individuals who share this world together and it is important that we support one another, treat one another fairly, with respect and celebrate our differences. We are all experiencing a difficult time and this is when we need the support and care of our family, friends and community the most. When communities reach out and join together, they become stronger and happier.
The world is full of injustice, from international politics, to unfair business practices, to how individuals treat each other in everyday life. However, just because there has always been injustice in the world doesn't mean there's nothing you can do about it. By taking individual actions, and partnering with other like-minded people, and staying informed, you can stand up to injustice and make the world a better place. It is important that we do something, no matter how small.
Monday Message - 25th January 2021
Scientific endeavour caring for us all
Today children are thinking about two pieces of Scientific work. The first, a discovery from almost 200 years ago, is very relevant to our current situation. The other, something where we can all be part of, is a big data gather which will be used by scientists to assess the health of the nature in Britain.
Assembly today is about the father of vaccination, Edward Jenner. As with so many medical breakthroughs today, Jenner used meticulous observation, listening to his patients alongside experiment and clinical trial. The result was vaccination and the eradication of a virus that killed millions and left others scarred for life - Smallpox. I remember seeing cases of Smallpox on the news when I was little, and the celebration when this terrible disease was eradicated. To do this, the two great superpowers of the time, the USSR and the USA, right in the middle of the cold war, agreed to work together for the good of everyone on the planet. At this time in history, the mere fact that Russia and America were agreeing to work on something together was just as big news as the World Health Organisation's work to eradicate Smallpox!
Thinking about Dr Jenner, whose pioneering work led to the Smallpox vaccination, the first vaccination in history I was struck by something he said:
“While the vaccine discovery was progressive, the joy I felt at the prospect before me of being the instrument destined to take away from the world one of its greatest calamities [smallpox], blended with the fond hope of enjoying independence and domestic peace and happiness, was often so excessive that, in pursuing my favourite subject among the meadows, I have sometimes found myself in a kind of reverie.”
I think this might be how a lot of the paramedics, doctors, nurses, pharmacists and other health care professionals, working flat out on vaccination or in covid wards are feeling right now. Alongside pride in their contribution to combatting coronavirus, the hope of happier times in the future is I hope, bringing much needed comfort.
Meanwhile there is our own mental health mid-pandemic to think about. Dr Jenner spent much of his time outdoors in nature, observing and enjoying the natural world. On the news this morning was more research into the positive effect nature can have on all our wellbeing, even just hearing it while indoors (see BBC Soundscapes for Wellbeing). I know on the gate this morning, hearing a crew of lively sparrows arguing got my morning off to a better start.
The RSPB Big Garden Birdwatch must be one of very few things we can do that is unaffected by coronavirus. I find January a tedious month at the best of times but never regret joining in the Birdwatch. Wrapped up with a cup of tea, identifying and counting birds for an hour for the RSPB really lifts my spirits. It also provides scientists with excellent data on the health of the bird population and the state of nature in the UK. Birds are like the canary in the coal mine: a healthy bird population indicates wider health in nature, biodiversity in the insect population and plants. Next weekend, young and old, we can all be research Scientists.
Children are born taxonomists; they love classifying and naming stuff, whether it's cartoon characters, cars, dinosaurs or ... birds. I think the act of being able to name something deepens respect and understanding for it so we care about it differently. When children can name a bird they see, their feeling of cleverness, of being 'in the know' will also make them feel more part of the natural world, something that benefits us all. I have saved all the resources you need for an hour next weekend in https://www.rspb.org.uk/get-involved/activities/birdwatch/
Happy Monday, Ms S :-)
Thursday Thought - 21st January 2021
going on one more round, when you don't think you can, that's what makes all the difference
In assemblies this week Ms Stewart and I have been talking to the children about endurance and perseverance and sharing examples of people, who despite difficulties, have kept going, even when it has been really hard. Perseverance isn’t easy. It means that even when things get really hard for us, we don’t give up. When we are facing things that are difficult, we face a decision: Do we give up or do we persevere?
Speaking to some parents this week, I know that some children learning at home are finding it hard to stay motivated, now the novelty has worn off. Parents are finding it incredibly difficult to balance homeschooling with their own work commitments and our ability to keep up our spirits is really being put to the test during this on-going pandemic.
However people do have inside themselves the capability to develop the kind of perseverance that will see them through the world’s current health and economic crisis — and through future crises they are certain to encounter. History is filled with stories of individuals or entire populations who struggled through the most difficult of times. Friends and family members who overcame health concerns, financial troubles or personal tragedies can be the source of such stories, too.
Perseverance means having the self-discipline to continue a task despite being confronted with difficulties or unexpected challenges. Children need to cultivate a number of skills on their educational journey, and perseverance and strength of character are critical skills to ensure children give their all to tasks and are able to deal with the range of challenges they will be faced with throughout their school life and beyond.
People who consistently challenge themselves are more likely to persevere when they fail or when they encounter difficult times because they don’t feel that failure is a permanent condition. The more times you put yourself out there in tough situations and fail, the more failure just doesn’t matter. It is true that COVID-19 has altered our normal daily routines in ways that we could have never imagined. Our everyday lives upended, our plans and some of our major life milestones cancelled or changed, our ability to leave home, to enjoy festivities, to eat at restaurants, to play outdoors with our friends, and our overall ability to socialise in person is no longer a socially acceptable practice.
It is not surprising that people are experiencing a flurry of emotions including fear, anger, loneliness, frustration, and even some rebellion, but these emotions can often leave us feeling drained and out of control of our own lives.
As parents, we can help our children to develop their perseverance skills, drawing on their own independent learning skills. This should support them to stay focused with their home-learning and provide you with the time to focus on your own work commitments.
We can teach children self-compassion, helping them to understand that we all make mistakes and we all experience failures. Then instead of dwelling on the mistake or becoming angry with yourself, allow yourself permission to not be perfect, look at these failures or mistakes as an opportunity to adjust your approach, to try again differently, and to practice kindness and self- encouragement so that you can better adapt, learn, and grow. Allowing children the time and space to work through problems independently and develop their own strategies will help them take responsibility for their own learning. Giving children the time to reflect on their mistakes and develop appropriate solutions will mean they have the confidence to work without constantly being dependent on input from their peers or adults.
Encourage children to consider their goals and what steps they are taking to help them reach these. They need to think about: Are they taking steps to help them reach those goals?; What is holding them back?; How will they approach challenges and setbacks?; Why is it important for them to achieve these goals? Having a firm grip on our WHYs in life strengthens our determination and can help us push past difficult moments. Showing children that setting learning targets will help them achieve their desired goals should aid them in developing a disciplined attitude towards their school work. A mix of daily, short-term and long-terms goals in several subject areas will also give children an extra incentive to focus on their school work.
We have talked to the children a lot about gratitude and practicing being thankful through our assemblies, but spending 5 to 10 minutes everyday reflecting on the good aspects of your life is really important. Children need to find ways to express what makes them happy, what makes them feel connected and what makes them feel loved. Children who are able to express their thoughts and opinions clearly will be better prepared to contribute to decisions about the learning they want to undertake. They will also be able to join in classroom discussions, which should help them to develop a more positive attitude to school life.
Practicing patience also allows us to experience the journey before we get to the destination. Patience can be described as the art of remaining calm without becoming angry, anxious, or worried when faced with obstacles, challenges, and setbacks. One way for us all to practice this is to focus on slowing down and deepening our breathing when you become angry, upset, sad, or anxious.
Children, and adults, are social creatures and being apart is so difficult for everyone. When we work as a team, our goals and our determination is strengthened, so for children working at home alone on their school work this is a challenge. It is hard to provide the same level of encouragement from their peers as they would get in school but we are all in this together and we need each other to get through it. Even though we cannot be physically together, it’s important to call, video chat, email, or write letters to the people we care about to engage in responsive interactions, protect our emotional well-being, and manage the stress of living through this challenging time.
Pandemic fatigue is a reality. We had all hoped that Covid-19 would have been under control by now and this continued uncertainty is hard for us to manage. It is like we are running a marathon without knowing the total distance of the race. But in the words of Billy Ocean ‘When the going gets tough, the tough get going’. We don’t know how long this will last but we do know that as parents, we can control the way we respond to these challenges that can positively impact our children. Our children need our leadership to teach them how to cope when life is really hard.
Monday Message - 18th January 2021
Last week, Mrs Rutter-Brown talked to children about young people who'd cared for others through lockdown here in the UK. Assembly today celebrated two young women who made it their life's mission to care for other people and at great personal risk and requiring deep reserves of endurance in the dangerous and hostile places they chose for their work.
There are two meanings to the word endurance and I rather think living through this pandemic requires both. In assembly today I talked to the children about two African American women, one born a slave in the South, the other, nine years younger, a free woman in Delaware, Pennsylvania, with access to a private education and medical school. Both were chosen because their lives demonstrate the power of endurance. A choice they made to endure for others - in even harsher times than we are living through.
I asked the children to think of or notice something small they might endure today. Maybe something to help their parents and carers work at home or to help their classmates or teaching staff in school. I wonder if they will tell you about this round the dinner table tonight. How did they feel? Did they feel proud? Happy?
We know that when children are dealing with challenging material (and living through a pandemic provides no end of this), their wellbeing is helped by small acts they can do to make a positive difference. Small positive actions will ameliorate negative feelings of fear, hopelessness, feelings of lack of control or agency, being totally in the hands of fate. Small acts of kindness and caring for others will balance all the understandable negative emotions and provide a small spark of light at the end of the tunnel. Helping us to endure the present and come out OK at the end of it all.
This lockdown feels very different to last March. There seems to be far less optimism and, as might be predicted, after a year since we were first hearing about this virus there is more general fatigue, anxiety and less resilience. Hope and optimism can be hard to find but that does not mean we should give up, stop looking for them and noting when we find them, however small. Our children are all very young, their lives, no less than at any other time, should include opportunities for wonder, magic, curiosity and malarky. To give them that, we need (to coin a cliche) dig deep, endure and care for each other.
Ms S :-)
Thursday Thought - 14th January 2021
INSTEAD OF WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU CANNOT CONTROL, SHIFT YOUR ENERGY TO WHAT YOU CAN CREATE
Roy T. Bennett - Author
The first global pandemic of the 21st century has generated plenty of antisocial behaviour such as panic-buying, but it is also inspiring very many people to step up and do something helpful. We have seen selfless communities rallying together to support front-line health workers, local food banks and those who need it most. Helping others during a pandemic can be a rewarding way to give back at a time when all of us are feeling worried and anxious about our health and the future. It’s the kindness of others during hard times that reassures us and inspires us to give back in our own ways too.
In assemblies this week we have been sharing some stories with the children about inspirational people, as our focus this term is ‘caring for others’. Ms Stewart shared how Marcus Rashford began a campaign for free school meals in June where he convinced the government to provide vouchers in the summer holidays for 1.3 million children in England who were receiving free school meals in term time, following the support given during the first coronavirus lockdown in April.
Since March 2020 there have been numerous news stories sharing the good people have done to help others, but these often get overshadowed by the unavoidable sad and shocking news informing us of the rise in daily cases and deaths.
In these scary, uncertain times, we could all benefit from focusing on the good a little more. We could all do to see the best sides of human nature prevail a little more often. Even in these trying times, we can lift our spirits by focusing on the positive things happening around the world. Studies have found that doing so is good for our health, both mentally and physically. So in today’s blog I thought I might try and lift all of our spirits and share some of these prosocial stories.
Corner shop kindness - A couple in Scotland, Asiyah and Jawad Javed, created ‘coronavirus kits’, including hand gel, a mask and wipes and delivered these for free to all the elderly and infirm residents in the village of Falkirk to help prevent the spread of the virus.
Jack Maltby-Smith - Northampton Town academy under 12 player, Jack was inspired by Marcus Rashford’s campaign to provide meals for children during half term week. He decided to encourage friends and family to sponsor him for the amount of goals he scored in his fixture against Stoke City. Jack scored two goals but instead of sponsoring the striker with just £1 per goal, like he asked for, many fundraisers supported him in their droves with generous donations, helping to raise more than £5000, enough money to feed 300 families over Christmas.
Corey William - His efforts raised £4,000 to buy tablet computers for patients at hospitals such as Llantrisant's Royal Glamorgan who could not have visitors. Carrying sacks of potatoes to help out in his dad's Gelli chip shop is not unusual for Corey, who is from Ton Pentre. But it gave him an idea at the start of the first lockdown - after finding out about hospital patients who could have no contact with the outside world. It was then he decided to put the practice he had gained helping his dad to good use - and carry a sack of potatoes two miles up the steep hill to the top of Penrhys in Rhondda.
He did not stop there, though - in one week in May he also tackled two other mountains and "biked the Bwlch" and "ran the Rhigos". The money raised bought tablet computers for patients at the Royal Glamorgan, Ysbyty Cwm Rhondda and Y Bwthyn hospitals, all in Rhondda Cynon Taf.
Imogen Papworth-Heidel - This football mad schoolgirl was inspired to do something to raise funds for charities supporting key workers after seeing Captain Tom Moore walking laps of his garden for the NHS so she set out to do one keepy-uppy for each of the UK's key workers in April last year. She realised she could not reach her target alone, so footballers including Lioness Lucy Bronze responded to an appeal for help. Imogen completed a total of 1,123,586 keepy-uppies during an unbroken 195-day run, reaching more than 7,000 a day during the first lockdown and the summer holidays. About 2,000 sports clubs, school groups and individuals also "donated" 5,976,414, taking videos of themselves and sending them to her parents. Among those joining in the challenge were England and Manchester United forward Marcus Rashford and Spandau Ballet star Martin Kemp. She raised more than £11,418 for nine charities by keeping her football up in the air as many times as she could.
And let’s not forget our own good news stories. Five local heroes were recognised for their work in the community during the first lockdown period. Laura Clifton, John and Julia Griffiths, Daniel Pendlebury and Sarah Lees were all nominated for a Northwich Hero Award, as part of a search organised by Barons Quay and the Northwich BID. Read their stories here.
These are just a few of the ‘good news’ stories, highlighting the efforts people have gone to to help and care for others during this pandemic. When we give to others it activates the areas of the brain associated with pleasure, social connection and trust. Altruistic behaviour releases endorphins in the brain and boosts happiness for us as well as the people we help. Caring for others is not all about money - we can also give our time, ideas and energy, being polite and courteous in all situations and always trying to see the best in people. If we all could show care and consideration for others in our behaviour then hopefully the effect will be contagious and that if everyone behaved that way then we could make a real change to society.
11th January 2021
I feel like a lot of people would have learned a lot about themselves in 2020 ... we showed compassion and empathy. That was really lovely to see
First, thank you to all families who have rejigged and rethought their working so they can keep any request for a place in school to when this is absolutely needed. Thank you too to their employers who, like us, are making reasonable adjustments for their staff who are also managing home learning with young children. We can no longer take comfort or confidence that children don't spread the infection. A more virulent strain means more people will need hospital care and more will die from Covid. Our collective efforts mean that vulnerable pupils and children of critical workers will be safer here in school and the risk of infection coming home to you or coming in to staff in school is reduced. Collective efforts where we all play our part mean we may get out of lockdown faster, that life-saving cancer operations won't be delayed and, if we were unfortunate enough to be one of those who become critically unwell with Covid, there will be a hospital bed for us.
It was humbling last week that two families whose children really do need a place in school, called to ask that we prioritise families in greater need. I thanked them and am in total admiration of their utter selflessness but declined their useful and kind offer. Their children really do need a place.
If you have not watched the video of the meeting last Wednesday please think about it; it was shared on your child's Google Classroom. We all respect and comply more when we understand. There has been some mixed messaging from On High; revised guidance that where parents and carers are critical workers they should work at home if they can and only take a school place if they must came out Friday tea time, after the guidance that only one parent needed to be a critical worker. Last Wednesday we too did something of U turn last week from aiming to have the most we can safely have in to now asking you to support us in ensuring the fewest children possible are in school for face to face education.
We know that every family in the UK is under increased stress and pressure right now. When people are under stress, it is harder for them to care about other people and appreciate that others are in greater need. But in the words of Dr Matt Butler, just because it's harder doesn't mean we shouldn't do it. We are all affected by Covid but we are not all in it together in the same way. Additional stress and pressure when you have a decent enough income, when your children have access to devices and a space to work, parents able to help and a garden are not in it in the same way as some of the families discussed in assembly today.
Today's assembly (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1-iV_tBvXDbfptd1f8kfBIPmJfvEO29Xf/view) shares with children the achievements of Guardian Footballer of the Year, Marcus Rashford. Rashford may be a premier league player with all the wealth and trappings of fame and fortune but he has not forgotten his childhood experience, growing up in Wythenshawe seeing his mum struggle to keep food on the table. I remember too, when my friends at school were talking about summer holidays and where they were going, I would be worried about what we'd be eating. I may not wish Marcus Rashford goals at Anfield but I am 100% with him that Covid has thrown inequality into sharp relief. It is the moral and civic duty of all useful and kind citizens as well as the duty of governments to care for other people. You can read the Guardian article that has inspired assembly and today's message at https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2021/jan/04/the-guardian-footballer-of-the-year-marcus-rashford-my-mum-is-everything but meanwhile I leave you with his advice to children and wishes for our country.
“Only stay in competition with yourself,” he says. “Everyone’s journey is different. There is no right way to do it. Train hard and believe in yourself. My wish is that all children start life on an equal playing field in the UK. That no child starts life 20 yards behind any other child and that our children are equipped with tools they need to succeed at anything they put their mind to.”
Ms S :-)
8th January 2021
reasons to be hopeful
This was my Something to Read on Christmas morning. It's brilliant and I recommend it, but for this post the title says it all.
I have just come off a coronacast meeting with headteachers and NAHT colleagues to follow up from the Wednesday meeting with Dr Matt Butler which was specifically to share clinical information regarding the epidemic. Today's meeting (thank you Simon at Hartford Manor) was to share other information and provide further clarity.
On Tuesday we closed and made plans on the hoof, particularly around critical workers and vulnerable children. Nature abhors a vacuum and my union, the NAHT and other unions including the NEU, usefully and kindly offered some guidance around priorities. We thank them and their work on our behalf has been appreciated. When government guidance does appear it must take priority.
I cannot say the following strongly enough – schools did not close because they were not safe to be in. We can keep school as safe as we can, mindful of PM Johnson's caution that they can 'vectors for infection in the community' and every UK government has shut schools with the same caveats around vulnerable children and critical workers. The decision for school closure was for one reason alone: to prevent the spread of the virus to the point where demand overwhelms the NHS meaning that seriously ill people (with covid and all the other conditions, like cancer and heart disease) cannot receive life-saving treatment.
This means that the school workforce, children or families have no more reason to be anxious about being with us in school than before. I am no more fearful of the virus than I was. But I am very concerned that if the country doesn’t pull together to reduce infection there might not be any clinical workers to treat us if we do become seriously ill – with anything.
Guidance has been clarified with us at the meeting today and there are some updates on https://www.kingsmead.cheshire.sch.uk/communication-letters-home/covid-faqs-spring-2021
The support we have received from families is heart-warming and frankly has kept us going. Teaching, premises and admin staff have worked their socks off since Monday night's announcement having already attended a Sunday afternoon staff meeting (not in the rules) to prepare for full opening in tier 4. Families were so positive and appreciative of remote learning last lockdown and we have listened to their views and improved our offer for Lockdown 3. We have communicated honestly, openly and explained as well as we can with the information we have. It's a fast moving situation and thank you for keeping abreast of changes. Communication via the online meeting earlier this week and the website since last March tells you why as well as what we are doing.
This gives us every reason to be hopeful. Which brings me back to the title of the book I am reading.
The partnership we enjoy with most families means we can have every confidence that parents and carers will only request a place in school when they really need it. We can have faith that they will be mindful of government guidance around civic responsibilities as much as rights. The Guidance is clear: “parents and carers who are critical workers should keep their children at home if they can”. I repeat again the words of Dr Matt Butler 'Just because working at home is hard with children it is not a reason to send them to school.' We will do all we can to meet all requests from all families and have honest, useful and kind discussions before telling people their child cannot attend on a particular day. But the guidance now means I have neither the legal argument or, quite frankly, the energy to engage in protracted argument.
Today unions including the NAHT, NEU ASCL and NASUWT have agreed the following four principles for schools during lockdown:
Reduce bubble size to a safe enough level - these are our phase classes.
Maintain the integrity of bubbles, keep them intact - there is no mixing of phase classes during the school day. Some schools have had to cease before and after school care. We are offering Early Birds and Night Owls to working families. However, we do not have capacity to run four separate provisions which would require 8 members of staff. We are mitigating risk by encouraging phases to maintain distance and using the outdoors and hall as much as possible.
Capacity for the home learning offer - children learning at home are as important to us as those needing a place in school. We cannot staff the school to the point that there is not capacity to provide learning at home.
Staff should work from home whenever they can - some will be in school working face to face or because of other roles. Technical limitations for some roles mean staff will be in where they can't work from home. All staff who are clinically extremely vulnerable are working from home.
The view from the meeting I was in today was that, given the length of the last lockdown (March-June), it is fair to say there were too few vulnerable children in school and far too many slipped through the net (I’m talking England, not about us). This lockdown we should expect, as we have planned for, more pupils attending school but for public health reasons, this should still be the minimum number possible.
Please check the website regularly, we update via the homepage but where you can find the three links below. This will save Lisa and I repeating ourselves and ensure the whole school community is on the same page. https://www.kingsmead.cheshire.sch.uk/communication-letters-home/news-home , https://www.kingsmead.cheshire.sch.uk/communication-letters-home/covid-faqs-spring-2021 and https://www.kingsmead.cheshire.sch.uk/communication-letters-home/blog/spring-2021
With my thanks for reading yet another one.
Take care, do have a happy weekend. Huncker down and lets hope we get some snow!
Ms S :-)
7th January 2021
the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience but where he stands in times of challenge and CONTROVERSY
Martin Luther King Jr.
This first week of 2021 in school has been like no other in my career as a teacher. From a Sunday afternoon staff meeting to discuss and review our risk assessment before opening the school on Monday to all pupils, to an 8 p.m. announcement from the PM that all schools will now close. Then a day to quickly plan, in school and on-line provision, before welcoming our vulnerable and critical worker children back to school on Wednesday and begin on-line learning for those children at home. Hopefully today will be as normal as is possible in this fast changing situation. However, as I sit here writing this it has now started to snow, so who knows!
Our focus for assemblies this term is ‘caring for other people’ and on Monday I talked to the children about how, to protect them and the adults in school, their teachers and teaching assistants would now be wearing face coverings in class. Obviously when trying to listen to anyone wearing a face covering it is more difficult to hear clearly, we understand and appreciate this, but children can play their part by being attentive in their lessons and asking the adults to repeat something if they have been unable to hear. We are also expecting the children to care for each other by encouraging them to social distance, something young children find extremely hard.
In Ms Stewart’s assembly today she talked to the children about the village of Eyam, in the hills of Derbyshire, that made a far greater sacrifice than we are being asked to do today. They chose to quarantine themselves completely during an outbreak of the bubonic plague in 1665, allowing no-one in or out of the village, even having to bury their own dead. This self-imposed quarantine did successfully contain the spread of the disease, demonstrating their care for other people in neighbouring communities.
Yet as cases in the UK continue to spiral, with stricter social restrictions back in place: is everyone doing what they can to protect themselves and others? Yesterday alone, the UK had more deaths than Australia has had throughout the entire pandemic.
With this new strain of the virus being more transmissible, if we don’t comply with the restrictions in place, it is inevitably going to cause more deaths. Dr Matt Butler, a consultant at Addenbrooke’s Hospital, spoke yesterday during a corona cast to headteachers, and explained that although they don’t think this new strain is any more deadly, its increased virulence will cause more deaths, than a more deadly virus would cause. This is because with more people catching coronavirus, more will progress to severe disease and there will be more fatalities. As well as the devastation to individual families, this risks overwhelming the NHS. Being a working parent of two young children himself, he understands just how difficult it is to home school children, however he said that just because something is hard it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do it. We have a civic and moral duty to abide by the restrictions and stay at home whenever we can.
Compliance has been one of the most misunderstood and misrepresented concepts of this pandemic. During the first wave of the virus back in the spring, research indicated that over 97% showed good compliance with the rules, with no meaningful decrease from March to May. It was only as lockdown was eased that compliance began to decrease. Partly, people felt the situation was safer. But other factors contributed too. For many, the new rules were simply too complex to understand. While during lockdown 90% of adults in the UK reported feeling they understood the rules, by August this figure was just 45% in England. Conflicting rules across UK nations, frequent changes to rules, and confusion about dates of announcement (as opposed to dates of implementation) exacerbated the situation.
A few but vocal few have also developed more extreme views. Last March people gathered to clap our neighbours working in the NHS. We have seen on the news recently, exhausted health care staff, coming off long shifts in PPE on covid wards, being greeted in car parks by protestors, unmasked, shouting about coronavirus being a hoax.
Other factors are important as predictors of compliance, too. Some of these have been demonstrated during previous pandemics: older adults and women are typically better at following rules to stop the spread of viruses. But others have emerged more specifically during Covid-19. The more privileged within society (wealthier and more educated) were more compliant during the first lockdown as their privilege supported their ability to follow the rules: more opportunities to work from home, spacious homes and gardens to lock down in, and a strong infrastructure, from good social support networks to scheduled food deliveries.
But as the pandemic has continued, this same privilege has been associated with a higher propensity to bend the rules. Money has bought a way out of social restrictions, from providing second homes in the country to retreat to (taking new strains of the virus with them), to enabling holidays abroad to escape more stringent UK measures. Some people have begun to second guess the virus, meeting up with friends against guidelines because they’re “being sensible” or it “won’t do any harm”.
When we are reminded of the urgency and danger of the situation, with stricter restrictions and daily news updates on the shocking number of cases and daily deaths, our sense of duty can return. Everyone needs to play their part, regardless of age, status or privilege. Any exemptions or modifications of rules can affect the compliance of others and sends a message that the rules are mere guidelines and personal sacrifices are not necessary. This is undoubtedly very difficult for all families and we all wish we weren’t back in another national lockdown but to care for others we all need to play our part. Compliance needs to be modelled as the norm. Modelling good compliance is the responsibility of us all to protect ourselves, our families and our communities.
If you haven’t made a new year’s resolution yet, let following the restrictions be the top of all of our lists and let this be the resolution that we work hardest to keep.
6th January 2021
Remote learning - not what any of us would choose but here we are
The first days in school were not anything we would have chosen but this is where we find ourselves and it seems we have two choices: to rant and complain or to channel our inner sanguine, mask up and crack on with a very difficult situation. We are choosing the second option.
I would like to extend my thanks to the staff here: admin, premises and teaching staff who have pulled off a feat: moving in 24 hours from plans for Tier 4 with full school opening to the current lockdown, as promised, 24 hours after Prime Minister Johnson's announcement. Admin staff, premises and teaching staff alike pulled out all the stops; many had to be kicked out so Mr Jones could lock up and I know were in touch with each other well into the evening. Thanks to our governor Mrs Rocke, who was briefly in the SLT chat, sorting out some issues about Google classroom well into the night.
Thank you for all the lovely kind messages and good wishes. Unlike the last lockdown where we had four days' notice, this time it was 8pm notice of next day. I am sorry for the undoubted difficulty that sudden shutting for all children so we could prepare caused folks at home.
While our priority has had to be opening for all since September still in the middle of a pandemic and throughout the last lockdown (we should remember this is the third) we have given some thought to the event of whole school closure. Plans will continue to evolve as our efforts were elsewhere until Sunday night and won't be right straight away. We work in an even more imperfect world right now so perfect answers that suit everyone just aren't on the menu I'm afraid. This is why I have called our first online parent/carer meeting at 5pm today and we hope you can attend.
Among the lots of kind messages and support, frustrations and difficulties have also been shared. Mrs R-B and I were on a remote meeting with Dr Matt Butler, the consultant at Addenbrookes hospital in Cambridge who has been supporting school leaders throughout the pandemic. His advice has been invaluable and his insights and information shared today are why we have called a late notice parent/carer meeting. Staff and governors are also invited as it is important we are all on the same page. I would like to clarify our position in the light of Dr Butler's 'grave concerns' about the current situation the country and the NHS faces. This meeting will be important not only for those of you supporting learning at home but equally to those of you with more vulnerable children or who are critical workers. You can view the meeting with Dr Butler here.
Very kind regards and I hope to see you later this afternoon.
Ms S :-)